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ADVICE FOR ANYONE STRUGGLING WITH SELF ESTEEM AND INNER INSECURITIES. DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯
DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌 - Your parents almost never met. You were almost never born. You almost didn't meet your friends. That significant one almost never came in your life. - Life is a sequence of events and consequences. And one different event leads to a whole different set of consequences. - So when something good happens, be thankful from all your heart. You never know how unlikely things are to happen.
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TAG SOMEONE! DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - The quest to satisfy your inner insecurities is a hamster wheel. The only way to get off of it is by not running at all. The ego will always try to trap you in an endless cycle of trying to prove to yourself that you're superior than those around you in some way or the other. - But what needs to be realised is that all metrics of superiority, of giving yourself a plus one, are based on pleasing the ego, on feeding your insecurities and they totally miss out on one simple fact that you can never get to a point of peace until you get along with those around you. - As the African proverb says, "If you want to fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." - And you can never go together until you drop out of the competition of who's better. Because in trying to prove that you're better, you're also proving that they're not good enough. Choose peace over a fake sense of superiority. Always.
TAG A FRIEND! DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH OTHERS 🙌 - The more specific you get, the better off you'll be. Most people just don't have the drive to look at a big goal and be motivated and go after it. And that's not a bad thing, as long as you know your way around. - You're more likely to build a huge wall when you start with laying one brick at a time as the target in mind. So stop talking to yourself in terms of goals and start talking in terms of action steps. When you know exactly what you need to do, you're more likely to go after it. - Philosophy is good, but it's just words and ideas unless it is backed by action. Simply telling yourself you need to develop a good routine is going to be less effective than telling yourself to go to sleep on time, wake up at time, use your phone less, devote an hour to meditation and exercise, finding spots on your day when you do things that don't necessarily benefit you. - You get to your goal by taking action. And you take action one step at a time.
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DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - No matter how tough, try following your dreams just once. You'll be surprised at how much you start loving your life. - WHY YOU SHOULD NOT 'SETTLE FOR WHAT YOU HAVE': 1. Life is short. 2. Regret is heavy. 3. You only live once. 4. People will be unsatisfied even if you do what they want you to. 5. Fulfilling your dreams is not as hard as it seems. It's possible.
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DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - Have intent in everything that you do. Going after a milestone, not with a reason in mind, but because the world tells you to go after it, is a waste of your life. You should know what every action you take would help you achieve. - As Robin Sharma says, "Win at the game the world sells you. But don't owned by it." You have only so much time in your life. And so if you spend that time in pursuits that don't help you get anywhere, pursuits that you didn't choose for yourself but were pushed upon you by the world, pursuits that don't align with your ideals in life, your highest aspirations in life, you're downright wasting your life. - This applies to every field of your life, whether that's education, or a career, or marriage, or parenthood, or anything else that you can think of. You must think your actions through, instead of just going ahead with them because the world approves of them. Because the world will back off if anything goes wrong, and you'll be left alone to deal with the aftermath. Even worse, you'll spend your life chasing one milestone after another, in search of fulfillment and happiness.
DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - If you're constantly worried what other people would think of your actions, your life isn't yours. It's theirs. 🙏
DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - Complacency kills. Name what you've lost. The underlying cause could very much be complacency. Your relationships. Your dreams. A spouse. A job. It should just blow your mind to think how many people have lost something, just because they got complacent. They stopped caring. They started taking things for granted, and stopped putting in the work. They thought that what they have will last forever and so they developed a reluctance towards change, which is the worst thing you can ever do. - 5 years or 50, your marriage can still break. 1 month or 10 years, you can still lose your job. You're not entitled to anything, and no one owes you anything. And so change happens. Thereby thinking that since you've had something long enough you won't lose it, is the worst train of thought and a self destructive attitude to have in life. - Stay alert. Change is always around the corner. You never know when it might strike. And so you've to look after what you've every single day. There's no exceptions. And that's just a small price you pay everyday, in order to avoid the long term pain of losing something.
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DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 🔥 CLAIM YOUR LIFE BACK! SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - Live your life! We give up on things, thinking what people would think, whether they'd approve of our actions, or make fun of our choices. It's an illusion. No one is thinking about you. They got their own sh*t to deal with. And even if they're thinking about you, what's bad about it? The idea that somebody will spend their mental bandwidth and their time critiquing you, should make it clear enough that they're the ones at loss. Let them gossip. You focus on doing something better. - The way I look at this, you either please other people, or you please yourself. Are you willing to lose respect for yourself, just to gain respect from someone else? Respect that may not even last forever? - Every person who has done something worthwhile, has been talked of in groups and on street corners, and most probably ridiculed at first. But what matters is WHETHER YOU MAKE OTHER PEOPLE BEND TO YOUR WILL, OR YOU BEND TO THEIR WILL. And even if you lose, you should have the mentality that your losses are your own. You don't need somebody else's two cents on that. They're losing plenty on their own. - No matter what you do, please know this: IN A HUNDRED YEARS FROM NOW, NEITHER ARE YOU GOING TO BE ALIVE, NOR ARE THEY, AND THE ONES WHO'LL BE ALIVE, WON'T EVEN KNOW YOUR NAME, LEAVE ALONE JUDGE YOUR ACTIONS AND THE WAY YOU LIVED YOUR LIFE. So it's time you start caring less about what other people think of you and start caring about what you think of yourself. It's your life. Live it at your own will. And die, at your own sword.
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LEAVE 💙💙💙 IF YOU FEEL THIS! SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - Everyone is hurt. But I once read somewhere that if you get bitten by a mosquito, but then at the same time hear of thousands of people losing their homes and lives because of an active volcano or an earthquake, you'd be more concerned about the mosquito bite. - Now that's not a fault. That's basic human tendency. But once you're aware of it, you must develop the capability to put your pain aside and feel the pain of others. Not because your pain is irrelevant, but because theirs is greater. And the ability to feel their pain and then empathize with them is one of the greatest leadership traits. - It's said that the effect you've on others is the most important currency there will ever be. Now what sort of an effect you'll have on others, if you can't feel their pain? - Be grateful that your pain is lesser than a lot of other people and have empathy that they've to face so much more. It'll definitely make your life easier and their world a bit brighter.
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DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 🔥 SHARE THE #INSPIRATION WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌 - A lot of people have dreams. A lot of people have goals. But very few people achieve their dreams and their goals, because most people don't take any action. Most people are afraid of failure. Most people believe that they're going to sit on their couch, and dream some good things and those dreams are going to become a reality by themselves. Most people never feel just 'ready enough' to start. Most people delay action till the next hour, or the next day or the next week. - I have some advice for you. Don't be 'most people'. Take action. Take some goddamn action. Do something. Action creates results. Thinking doesn't. And in the beginning, those results may not be what you want, but that shouldn't matter. What should matter is that you are not sitting back, lost in thought, hoping for a miracle to find you. The colosseum wasn't built by thought alone. The Taj Mahal wasn't built by thought alone. Countries didn't gain freedom by thought alone. Human beings didn't reach the moon by thought alone. - You should've a dream, but then you also have to follow that dream with consistent action. You've to take some steps, every single day. And no matter how small and irrelevant those steps might feel, you've to continue taking them. You've to keep working to close the gap between you and your dreams, your goals. Because if you don't do it for yourself, no one is going to do it for you. It is all on you. - Doing something that matters would never come from waiting for the right moment, putting blame on others, always procrastinating, valuing pleasure more over progress or being caught in an endless loop of instant gratification. It comes from taking control of your mind, realising that you can rest anytime but work only on specific times, not outsourcing your health or your dreams or your growth or your life in general. - Stay wise. Otherwise tomorrow, you'll wish you'd have started yesterday.
DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💙 AND PLEASE SHARE THE #WISDOM WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌💯 - You can wish for tomorrow. You can hope for it as well. But you can never rest assured that it is promised to you that you'll see another sunrise. - We plan for the weekend, for the next month, for what we're going to do 6 months from now or even 5 years down the line. All this, when we don't even know if we're promised another morning. We take it for granted so much, that we forget that every second there's people out there, throughout our world, losing their lives, to diseases, to accidents, to age, and so many other reasons that don't seem rationally possible when we think of them. - We forget that it's all seems impossible until it happens. We forget that life unfolds in mysterious ways that none of us can predict. We forget that what's gone is gone and what's about to come will always be something that none of us will know and so all that we have is this moment, this present moment, that seems so ordinary, but is so precious and ever fleeting. - And don't get me wrong. I do not mean to say that any of us should spend our time in a constant state of fear, always anticipating our end, and never able to live happily and do work that's meaningful. - It's just that we should be more mindful and considerate with our time. Because if, and when, that happens, we'd stop wasting it doing meaningless things and putting it in places that don't necessarily serve our best interests. - Remember, the tragedy is not that we don't live forever. The tragedy is that we don't use our lives in the best way possible and devote our time to doing things that we really need to do. - Be more wise and use the present moment, which is all that you've, in doing things that put the CURRENT YOU in THE BEST PLACE to be HAPPY & SATISFIED.
DOUBLE TAP IF THIS INSPIRES YOU 💯🔥 AND SHARE THE #INSPIRATIONALTHOUGHTS WITH YOUR FRIENDS 🙌 - Life is unfair. It always was. It always will be. And most people will agree with me on this: You can't choose what happens to you. Things won't always go your way. You've been expecting a promotion at your job, but instead, you get fired. You've been thinking of marrying that person, but instead, they tell you they don't love you anymore. You've been planning for a new beginning, but instead, you lose a loved one. - Life was tough and it always will be. Several people have tried changing it, but I’ll tell you what: NONE. SUCCEEDED. You cannot make life easy. Because if you do, then it'd be better that you'd have not lived at all. That is the truth. - But do you know what else is true? That if life comes down hard on you, you can choose to go back hard on it. If things get difficult for you, you can choose to use it as a chance to level up and find out what your real limits are, what you are really capable of. - Life will always keep throwing something at you. And you will fall when you get hit. But you get to choose whether you're going to get hit, fall down and stay right there, or you're going to fall and dust yourself off, get back up and go for another round. That's the hidden secret. That's the hidden quality that makes some people better than others at dealing with life's hardships. - You don't stay positive forever. You don't stay upbeat and motivated forever. You can't and you don't have to. Sorrow is very real. And you must feel your pain so you can heal your pain. But how long and how much you've to let the pain affect you is a variable. The more you strengthen yourself, the more you can push yourself through the sh*t that life throws at you.